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2008-08-12T14:38:00.002+08:00

heya, not doing my fair bit of blogging. well u saw my blog name rite ? P-R-O-C-R-A-S-T-I-N-A-T-I-O-N. S thats it.

Just got back from Semarang last night. Escorted Mr Santoso back to his hometown to open up his 1st small biz, finger food stall, on 8 August 2008. Lol...good date ? The date was not purposely chosen and it was only on 9th Aug did we realise wow, the food stall has a reali 'auspicious' opening date eh. During this trip, I can't help but marvel at the power of money...not like I ever thought money is unimportant. Butrealisation in the value n importance f money always hit me hard whenever I visit Indonesia. The work we did for the food stall was not tiring at all. We talked alot think alittle and the employees do the work...woo what a life. that's cos I've never been a boss and we all know what a bomb it cost to hire employees from SGP rite, so I think I've never ever have his feeling of purely instructing with words, not move a finger and ta da the work is ALL done.

Apart from work, did some touring around too. Met with Chris friends and drove together to the hills, real cooling place overseeeing the city, what a wonderful nightview.Nice ice cream places they have for people to chill on the hills too with healthy homemade ice cream.

After the first night of relaxation, Chris's frens were determined to show me the wildness of their city as I teased them that their city is a nice one for retirement. On the 2nd night we went to their local clubs and got thrashed. God knows I can't hold my liquor. Very cool club, the place looks so expensive, the decorations so classy n wild, with different rooms and themes, never expected to find this in a small 'quiet' city.

3rd night we ate with Chris relatives at Chandi(another part of Semarang that's of higher ground). A freaking rich ass just bought a BIG BIG BIG BIG piece of land that, built a few short buildings on it, had them extravagrantly done up with massive fountains statues and fking tall waterfall. The short buildings housed a Irish pub, 2 bars( glam for the youngies and cosy one for the oldies), 3 swimming pools, a French restaurant, a Jap Restaurant, western cowboy concept restaurant, chinese food restaurant. There is a centre open space area for people to sit in (surrounded by the small buildings and you can order from whichever place u like when u sit there.) People who go there takes super great pride in their dressing, elegantly dressed for chiling out. All of the ladies look like beauty queens, Chris intro them as daughters and wives from the super crazy rich.Everyone of them don exqusitly simple jewelry(just for chilling), wear fucking beautiful clothes and is bound to be carrying a LV, Chanel, Loewe, Jimmy Choo. Dior, Marc Jacobs Fendi, Burberry.I'm not exaggerating at all when I say EVERY Single woman is carrying of those. Freaking me out, no wonder Chris took me shopping before went and bought a simple n gorgeous white dress for me to bring on the trip and his cousin insit I borrowed her Loewe handbag. I thought we were a little overdressed when going from the house. But when I fucking hell get there, I'm glad I didnt wear my freaky shorts n tee. WTH, 1 od chris's frens frens was wearing a checked LV belt with a squarish gold buck;e, I don't know what to say, maybe I'm ulu ulu, but I shall just put it down to different class. It's fun to hand around with these people for a night n social, but if it would to become daily life, WTF. Cos don't have their $ and constant spirit to look like a queen or king. Chris family too agrees thatthey r of a different class altogether n they r mad. lol .

Anyway call me dumb or something, I'm a little miffed for not being able to spend National Day with Singapore! Love u still !

11/6/08 Drinks,relax,catch up

2008-06-13T14:33:00.001+08:00

Met Gary willie, Adeline, over load of Fish & chips.

Penny Black-O-bar-home

These guys make my day =)

Jie Jie's 2nd anniversary

2008-06-04T09:14:00.002+08:00

As i was MIA for a week from my blog. I'm back to blog about what happened last week.
There were a few eventful things for me last week.

Beginning with last Tuesday.. that's Jie Jie's 2nd death anniversary. So fast.. feels like it all just happened/ never happened. I still think she's gone overseas to Europe/China and will meet us at Changi Airport on her return.
I took the day off from work, starting from morning, went to buy her fav flowers, prepare a card, pinch at the food that mum cook, joked around with dad.Spend 1 - 2 minutes toking to sis in my heart.
We arrived at sis's place at 12:30..what surprised us was there was a guy standing in front was sis's place...Sis has lots of friends..the thing is most of them tend to be females, thus we were slightly surprised. When he turned and saw us, he was equally surprised. Oh okay, he is Jia hui a mate from Jie jie's secondary school. Jie jie used to describe him as very smart and very kind, looking at him, standing alone, visiting Jie Jie. I have no doubt. His appearance brought a little comfort to Mum, Dad and me. Maybe it's because it makes us feels not alone, makes us feels that apart from us, there is still somebody who misses my jie jie deeply as well.

Mum and Dad bought a fellow churchmate of theirs too. At 12:45 when Eloise, Piyo, Swap and one other fren of Swap came, mum's churchmate pass out sheets of songsheet and prayers... I was like ahhhhhhhhhhh...not again! anyway went ahead with it, cos I guesss it's simple respect for my mum and it's not something difficult. I was wrong, it was difficult. The song sang about people reaching out to GOD, asking GOD to listen to what is in their heart and help them out. Makes me think back to the time when Jie Jie was fighting cancer, when she prayed with all she had for another chance. Makes my heart wrench, and tears flowed.

After the prayer session we grouped around, ate bee hoon, chat about life, work and wawa ! Missed that lazy dog! Still feel alittle hateful about not being able to hang on to Jie jie's pet. Not being able to at least take care of her dog on behalf of her when she is not around. In the midst of thinking why mum was so cruel to not let me take over Jie jie's duties in bringing up wawa, I suddenly understand again that Wawa is not my duty handed down from Jie jie. The main point is my parents. When Sis passed away, I was upset, did not believe that GOD will ever help people. I was also determined to pick up the responsibility of taking care of my parents, both mentally and financially.

I have yet to do that.. Papa is already 60 year old(I swear he doesn't look a little like it at all), why is he still working ? Grrr..Also I still feel Mum is not mentally satisfied, not enough programmes/ activities for her to enjoy/ have fun. There you go. new goals developed !

My weekend - 23 may after 6pm to 25 may

2008-05-26T10:17:00.006+08:00

Total piggying out..big time glutton !

Late Night Dim Sum.. Manhatten Seafood Platter ... No Signboard Crabs .. Jack's Place Steak & Escargot

Sighzzz

Played Mahjong

Got scolded for being able to play only 2 poks before I have to run off

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Watched 2 DVDs

Over Her Dead Body

P.S I love YOU -- so so so so so so so SAD! Cried my eyes out as usual and had Mr Santoso chuckling his head off looking at me in my teary state

Minimum shopping done ...

Bought a lavendar top..even if I'm gonna look like a ball ..I guess I should at least look like a beautifully coloured ball

-----------------I hate my pictureless blog--------------------

HATE IT THAT I HAVE TO google for images to have some pics in here....shudders

But I'm too tooo too stingy to want to spend $ or ask for $ to buy a camera...an item which I work out as something which I don't really need ...haiz ....

IT's Friday Time!!!!

2008-05-23T10:14:00.002+08:00

YAY!!! It's Friday & I'm not so ill anymore! I'm feeling better by the minute. The red runny nose is gone .Thank God. The PAINFUL sore throat is gone too! Now I'm just left with a sweet little cough, which I don't really mind. Hahaha

Thinking through what I'm gonna do today, I'm quite broke..but without a clue as to why that is so...hmmmm

Mr Santoso will be having his dinner at his office tonight cos they are gonna get BONUS! Fcuk.. I want BONUS TOO...

I need new shoes, new clothes, new bag, new everything...gotta wait for new $ which comes on payday...haiz..(maybe I can target a teeny teeny weeny bit of somebody's bonus....hmmm...)

Anyway the timing for his company bonus giving dinner is so so so bad.. It clashes with the birthday of one of his suppliers...DUH! Why would anyone care about the birthday of one supplier ? That's because these supplier has gotten alot of business from his company through him and thus has invited him and his partner(which should be me) for a Jumbo feast! Shit I'm dying...missing out on a meal full of big crabbies...What ill luck..think I'm gonna fall sick just at the thought of this.

So to make myself feel better and all, I've gone ahead and arranged for MAHJONG TONITE! Heals the soul, ya know~

So So So Sick

2008-05-21T11:44:00.002+08:00

I'm feeling so sickly, returned from Genting on Vesak Day, reached home at midnight, I really planned to make it to work on Tuesday. But when I open my eyes, I felt so dead...heavy head..couldn't breathe..oh no..MC time.

Continued to moan and groan in bed for ages then dragged myself to the doctors...who used cheamalogy terms to describe my flu & cough so as to get my parents really worried and fussing around me.

To me: I've gotten a bad sore throat and a bad cough, which causae tme to have slight difficulty to breathe

To doc: I've got asthmatic bronchitis -(See my mom's face go ..OMG what's THAT !!!!) Lol

Luckily he is cheap.. if not I will kill him !

And he is a really sweet doctor, who gave me 3 days MC...considering this week is a 4 day week, if I really took all 3 days, I would only have to go to work on Friday..that's like so cool!

Haha, but being really responsible & eager to get a payraise, I'm back at work after a day's rest, anyway it's not like my work for today is hard, I will be looking through photos sent through by modeling agencies and choosing 20 odd models to be used for our client's events, now I'm looking at photos of beautiful girls and some not so beautiful ones..bitching about them no doubt whlist coughing an sneezing out my nose.

IBack from Genting Highlands

2008-05-21T11:41:00.003+08:00

Wooo Hooo! I'm back !

I admit I'm a BIG fan of gambling-gosh did I have fun.. though I only won Rm200 hahahaha

I love the theme park rides, even though I've tried all of them at least 15 times, but each time I go up the spaceshot I get the same jiggly feeling hahaha

Love the company that I was with..It was just the getaway that I need , somewhere near and cheap.

Pictures to be updated when I get them from Honie(Helena)

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2008-05-16T13:22:00.004+08:00

Ytd after work, the plan was to go down to Meritus Mandarin to meet Mr Santoso and go for 7:20 at Cathay Cineleisure...

I reached Somerset trainstation at 6:45- EARLY! En route to Meritus, I rcved an sms from Miss Selfridge, they are having a mega sale at Wisma from 7pm -9pm that very evening! Cool, I excitedly brisk walk/jog to the store. Couldn't believe my eyes. Miss Selfridge & Dorothy Perkins were closed..CLOSED..no shop in Wisma Atria is closed on Thursday evening! Whats more crazy is there's a Snakelike queue forming outside the 2 shops. Being a very typical auntie and my liking for clothes from Miss Selfridge, I joined the que.Hahaha & 5 minutes into queing, I looked behind me to find that the number of people behind me is about the same as those infront of me. How CRAZY! 6:58, they opened the doors to Dorothy Perkins, 40% from the que went there. But not me, I faithfully stayed on and rushed in at 7pm~ I browsed quickly due to time constraints(gotta rush for movie & I know Mr Santoso is in Wisma alrdeay Gosh) Grabbed 2 tops and went to the cashier..big big discount 1 top was $66 - After a 50% discount-there's an additional 15%. Got it at $28 ~~~~~~

I walked out of the shop , satisfied with what I've accomplished and found Mr Santoso at the door grinning at me with the' you are fast! ' expression. And we brisk walked/jog to catch 'What Happen in Vegas'. Totally fantastic. I love that show~~~~~~~

Afternoon with nothing to do...

2008-05-14T13:44:00.005+08:00

It's a boring day at work...

My campaigns are doing exceptionally well, client is happy, boss is happy, that leaves me BORED
I've gotten used to my 9am-6pm work, never thought I will be okay working routinely. (Not that I think I'm special, neither am I someone always on the lookout for excitement. Quite to the contrary, I'm plain LAZY)

Recently, I'm always musing to myself about what a GREAT boss I work under and blah blah so I thought I would post a pic of my wonder boss!

Met Willie

2008-05-13T14:50:00.005+08:00

Met Willie at Marina Square after I knock off yesterday. We were supposed to be looking around for a ahem for one of his ahem girl ahem friends. But as usual, our tummies rule above all else.. so off we head to Kam boat for DIM SUM !

The kam boat restaurant TOTALLY empty, I think Willie had it booked so we could enjoy private time (whahahhaha) Anyway, the food tasted good.

Over dinner, we began our usual crapping. From current work, to school, to our good old days and a little bit of gossiping + complains about bf/gf. Comfortable to have a buddy whom you can discuss anything under the sun with. But I'm not comfortable, I'm FORTUNATE cos I have about 4 of such buds who I can confide all my dirty secrets(not that there are many).

After food, its time for a short walk, browsed around for options of gifts, en route to our DESERT

Fatty Fatty day! Result - Dim Sum dinner, Ben & Jerry's for dessert. alot of crapping - no gifts bought.

Oyah, before meeting Willie, I went to Ms Selfridge and found out that I've upped a clothes size! Good gracious NO

Back from Pagoh..Back to Work

2008-05-12T12:14:00.002+08:00

Yoohooo, I'm back!

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It was a fantastic trip, gossiped so so much with the Aunties, stuffing my mouth every 5 seconds with delicious eatties, playing card games and having a good laugh with kids ranging from 14 years old to 32 . Spent alot of time with my mum and God Bloody NO! I actually went for a blood test examination in MUAR! Whhahahahahaha ...Seriously I seldom almost never heard any Singaporean getting their health checking in Malaysia's maincity Kuala Lumpur, and definitely not Muar. But that's exactly what we did. Early on Saturday morning 7 women trooped down to a small clinic in Muar to get our body checked and blood taken to be tested for 20 odd diseases. Phew. WHY were we doing that ? Simply because that doctor has found a virus in one of my auntie's liver and gave her effective medication. Afterwhich he told her, she was very lucky, as that virus could have turned into cancer if it has been left unattended! As you can guess, the next day the quntie told everyone in her kampong and everyone told their relatives from other kampong and the doctor in Muar is enjoying great business, I'm not saying he is a QUACK, I don't even care he is, but I'm just musing over what a great way this is to get good business.
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Anyway I would just like to take back my words on what a boring place Pagoh is, because it's not as bad as I imagined, I had fun, time past fast, Mum loved the trip . I enjoyed the company of my aunties, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews, and has came to realise that a big family is indeed a blessing~

1 BIG COMPLAIN

SEEMS LIKE MY BLOODY CAMERA IS SPOILT ! Grr BAD TIMING! Just when I decide to get back on blogging.

Mother's day Weekend

2008-05-09T09:49:00.004+08:00

Reminder note to all sons & daughters:

Whether you are fillal or not, just try to be good this weekend, go out of the way to please your moms k?

I assume everyone reading this, is as fillal as me and is nice to their parents 365 days a year (quite a difficult task to accomplish, if you have a demanding mom though). But since is Mother's day this weekend, lets be super duper sugary nice !

What am I doing this mother's day weekend ?

I'm going to accompany Her Majesty to Pagoh(a small town in Muar(a city in M'sia)) It's basically a bloody kampong with lots of mosquitoes, flies, chickens, ducks, wild boar.And honestly speaking, its actually the last place on earth where I would want to end up at for a WEEKEND. But when MUMMY suddenly become all sweet and caring speaking in that incredibly gentle voice of hers, asking me if I could accompany her to visit her sister's family this MOTHER'S DAY weekend...My fate for the weekend is sealed.What can I say???? ... There was only one option and God Bless me for having the knowledge to not do otherwise.

Now I'm sitting at my office desk on Friday afternoon looking all gloomy and sad.

But at least I won't be guilty feeling I haven't done much for dear mummy.

Just a week ago, I was still scratching my brains out on what present to get for Mom for Mother's Day. I'm too broke for decent jewellery, she has too many bags, can't afford to get her another Gucci or you will see me eating grass in Mandai zoo. But now, no worries, perfect solution, a small small box of bird nest, a little pocket $, and a weekend to bloody #@$#^%* pagoh with Mum. How perfect ! (perfectly shitty to be in pagoh)(If any of my pagoh neices nephews, cousins, aunties & uncles are reading this, do not talk about my blog during this weekend in Pagoh, MANY MANY THANKS)

Officially got a permanent job

2008-05-08T14:23:00.004+08:00

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My Company logo-

Company Name: Mccorkell & Associates

Our tagline is : We Love What We Do

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It's healthy to have a FAT BUTT

2008-05-08T09:13:00.007+08:00

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According to Chicago Reuters.... A type of fat that accumulates around the hips and bottom actually offer protection against diabetes

Hip Hip Hooray!

P.S I'm gonna dig out my dusty camera from one of the cupboards and start snapping so I have stuffs to POST !

Stopped Blogging...Coming Back Soon

2008-04-28T13:19:00.003+08:00

I've stopped blogging for ages.. but I think I would like to come back and continue my life story + rantings online !

May 2008 , blogging begins ~

Late in my updates

2007-11-03T10:10:00.000+08:00

Ok..I'm feeling so guilty, I've not been in much contact with my friends, not been meeting up, hanging out nor chatting on phone, and lastly not even updating my blog. As usual for all my atrocious behaviour, I've got some valid reasons (excuses)

On 18th October I came back from office work(by the way, I'm working as a permanent part timer in a marketing firm, and 18th was my last day of work before my 2 weeks leave off from office) to discover that 500kg of baby clothes + kids clothings (with a whooping cost of more than $8000 excluding shipping cost ).has arrived at my home...gosh was I shocked by the amt of my own orders..you know how light a piece of baby wear is right..imagine 500kg of them, they do take up a whole lot of space ! And my #$^%&^( small house don't have that type of space...So on 19th early morning I set out to do my delivery with a lorry man and we finished delivering more than half of the goods arrived.
Chris was devastated that I had not waited for him to finish work and do the delivery together..But I can't imagine delivering so so so so many clothes after 6pm...Madness

After the delivery madness on 19th Oct, I set off to Genting for a short holiday with my family and Christ to meet up with Christ's sister on the very next day , waking up at 6:00am..#@$#%^& Though I must say, I had a really great time in Genting~~~~ won Rm500 from the casino..Tried the crazy plunging ride again..When it was halfway going up..I couldn't help but exclaim out loud :"Why the hell did I take this ride, Please let me Down !!!!!!!!!!!!!". Gosh there's some kinda love + hate between me n that horrendously thrilling ride. I think I can't take the scary theme park rides available in the European countries and in Korea, since I'm so god damn scared by that one in genting. But come on, a woman went up on it, and came down in tears.So I'm considered great. While I was waiting to take that ride, I recalled a trip to genting with my Sun yous during my Poly Year 1 days. How fun that was! I remember sitting with philbert and Adeline while we were slowly raised up into the sky n plunged down in a matter of seconds. I missed my #$%$&( sun yous)

We took the coach back together with Christ's sis, she stayed at my house for the following 8 days during her vacation to Singapore, so you can picture me playing tour guide around tourists attractions...ZzZZzzz
After 10 days of tour guiding, we sent her to Changi airport and she took the flight home. And I was left to face the remaining of stocks. And most disgustingly , my boss called to tell me to return to work the very next day which is 1st November, I've got unfinished assignment as well. but because I simply love $ , I went back to the office.
My daily routine involves doing delivery, liasing with existing clients for re orders.working 9am to 6pm in office, rush assignment ,talking with mum n dad + sleeping. My weekend routine = rush more assignments from school, go around expanding our client with Christ.

Seems like not much of a life eh ? But my comfort is that I have managed to get back every single cent of the bloody cost of goods and shipping costs as well, and we r seeing a small profit, with quite an amt of goods to be sent out.

Still I can't wait to complete my studies + hang out with my dearest friends and resume normal dating activities with my darling . Bring mum n Dad on holidays as well. Blah blah blah...

No more to update except that I'm getting out of the house with the van man n Christ to make more deliveries.

WaWa in Dogster

2007-10-18T15:08:00.000+08:00

Check out Wawa!!!!!!!!!

http://www.dogster.com/dogs/624805

I miss her soooooo much..though she is the laziest living creature I ever come across.
(I mean she is even lazier than Sunny, (a friend of mine whom equates to the word lazy in my dictionary)I think she is the queen of laziness)
That doesnt mean that she is not smart, Infact her intelligence level is similar to that of a Genius
I miss adorable WAWA

I passed

2007-10-15T11:31:00.000+08:00

Yep Yep ~

On 10/10/07 I became a class 3 license holder ~~~~

Vrrooom vrooom?

Sis Bday

2007-10-08T13:41:00.000+08:00

It was sis bday on Friday 5th October. I took a day off work and accompanied Papa n mama over to sis place at All Saints, we did the usual stuffs we do every 2 weeks, tidy up her place, added in some new decor..saw the flowers and card from Swap. Don't know why..but it made me feel better, maybe its becos I think that sis is still being remembered by and cared for by her friends. Saw Piyo and xiaobai heading in just before we left. It still feels weird that, sis has left us, especially so when I meet her friends without her presence.
If she had not fallen sick, or if she had fell sick and recovered , the 2 of us might have alot of quarrels everyday, but thats not too bad as compared to now..no one for me to talk and squabble with when I step out of my room.

I miss u dearly , Jie Jie. So do Mama and Papa.
Hope you are in a nice place playing with Angels

My 21st Bday

2007-10-03T07:27:00.000+08:00

Couldn't go anywhere during my bday this year as I was in the midst of recovery that time, (perfectly well now). Yet I managed to enjoy my bday to the very max~

Friends who were disgusting sweet, organised and arranged to come to my house to celebrate my bday for me. Aww I'm so lucky to have these darlings..but the best part is I had not one group of these darlings..

1st grp of darlings

(Pict was taken on Garuiy's bday, as I forgot to ask for photo taking on my bday..damn.)

2nd grp of darlings~

(Everyone knows we 2 are much prettier in real than shown on this pic....(damn the photographer.))

My bday cake?

I've got 3 these year...

they are Disney Fa Cai cake from darlings in grp 2(as mentioned above)

2nd cake is Gelare MoonCAKES from Darling grp 2(image unavailable, as it was soon devoured)

3rd and final one is from my Prince Charming of course~

(chocolate champagne mouuse cake from Bakerzin-taste like heaven for me)

Presents ~~~

Mum and Dad gave the ever popular classical present(ang paos+well wishes) Mum added in a pair of diamond earrings too..hmm she sure is generous hehehehehehehehe

The rest =

Body shop gift pack set from Sinca n Honie

Vouchers from Alex + grp

Dainty sweet pair of diamond earrings from darlings in group 2

Balenciaga bag(dunno misspell anot) + ninewest bag from darlings group one

~~~~~My first solitaire diamond Rring !!!! Not joint no no..Its a one piece 0.5 carat

And the way he present it to me was absolutely romantic! I will tell it in details to my bestest buddy in future..no time to type all of that dwn. But one thing is for sure, when it comes to surprising his gf, Christian Santoso deserve full marks~

Btw....check this out

Winners for funniest face award

Night out with my family before op

2007-09-21T09:51:00.000+08:00

I'm feeling much better now so here's an update of my night out with my parents n christ.

Eating at 1 of my fave dining places - Swissotel Merchant court

Candid shot for mum, but dad's well prepared

in the midst of yawning ?

my dish looking kind of messy ?

After that we strolled along Clarke Quay, the lightings for mid autumn festival alrdy u

We were standing along the riverside, looking at some taxi boats passing thru the waters slowly, when I muttered something about it being so nice to travel on boat, must be relaxing blah blah...and Dad suddenly got excitedd, he made 2 phonecalls and started dragging us to the nearest taxi stand. We took a cab to the new pier at Marina south and before realising what's going on, we are on one of Papa's company's boat!

Dad on the front of the boat chatting with the boat drivers

Some kind of advertising campaign ???

The boat took us along the eastern outskirts of Singapore...From Marina to Marine Parade then Changi, following the sea route along East Coast Park..wow..many times I've looked out to the sea of ECP enjoying the land breeze and that night I was actually on the waters, looking at ECP and enjoying the sea breeze. Thouroughly comfy ~ The boatman gave us a feel of excitment by travelling back to the pier @ top speed and I could hardly balance myself without falling down..I miss the cool wind~

As mum didn't fancy a boat ride she sat waiting for us at one of the cafes in the pier. All in all it was a wonderful night..Good food, great company.nice view..new excitment

1st Operation

2007-09-18T09:08:00.000+08:00

So We've all got our 1st times..hmm 1st birthdays, 1st kiss, 1st love..1st watever blah blah blah and now I'm gonna have my first operation in which I will be put to a sleep.
I've had smaller operations before, so small that although it was performed in the operation theatre, the doc did not bother to put me to sleep for 20 minutes even.

This time will be the first whereby enough anesthetic will be injected into my body to cause me to lose conciousness totally. I certainly do pray that they put enough..cos nothing could be a worst nightmare than waking up to find some fellas cutting up your abdomen.
After the short paragraphs of update, one can imagine only how ecstatic I'm feeling right now.

Why I'm having the op 4 damn days before my 21st bday ? well bcos Her Majesty thinks so , and nothing can make her change her mind...which doesnt bother me too much as I've never beeen a bday celebrating craze...But when I'm back I would like to dedicate another entry to the past great bdays I've had and needless to say all were arranged by my sweetest darling friends instead of by Lazy pat!!!! Muackx
I've got tons of update before this op actually, e.g my jakarta trip or my big meal before the op, Dad bring us out on surprise boat crusing along Marina Bay ...

But no time for that cos I'm supposed to report to the hospital in 40 minutes time and I haven't changed , running late now . Be back soon.

(Oh and thanks to the ever insistent and sweet souls who asked repeatedly to visit, I appreciate the kind thoughts, but I dun feel like seeing anyone in hospital, let's arrange to go out after I get home)

Thanks to all my dearest darlings !

2007-09-15T10:21:00.000+08:00

Yeah I'm back from Jarkarta, but before I update about my trip, I would like to say a super BIG Thank U to my special darlings. These darlings took effort to remember when I'm going for my trip, sent me caring smses always, sms to check if I'm back, always initiate contact even when I sort of 'disappear' myself from their worlds. Touched me so much to receive their cares and concerns!

Besides those darlings of course there is darling pa,ma n darling ben dan who is getting chubby. Pa and ma took me to the doctor's regularly even though my condition is nothiong major, they still treat me with the utmost care...Awwww..Mama squuezes fresh fruit juice every morning..sometimes..she plucks out some leaves from our neighbour's plants and give me yucky bitter leave juice...ewwww..but cos she cares cares so much, I finished every yucky drop..O GOD! Then there's papa who always work hard (spend hard as well lol) for the family, always tempting me by offering me some allowance..which is truly hard to resist lor.
And my chubby who used to be skinny is the most patient, kind, generous man I've ever met !

My 1st BIG order - Yabadabadu ~

2007-09-05T09:01:00.001+08:00

YAY ! I got my 1st substantial order!

An order for 300 dozens of infant wear. (the other party drove a really hard bargain & got a BIG FAT discount..cutting our profit by another 20%...)

My hardwork and effort of going round to any infant wear shops in the East area paid off abit.hehe 300 dozens, that a good start...Before this order, I took in orders from as little as 4 dozens, then 11 dozens, then 35 dozens. Now We've got a big fish! Someone who has 3 infant and children wear outlets in SGP, and thinks that our product can run, so they decide to carry our full range. And if this trial sells well, they will continue to restock in huge amounts..Gosh

But as Christ's sister in Jakarta has also taken in many large orders, we would have to join the queue and wait...

Christ and me would be going back to Jakarta/Semarang for a holiday cum business trip hehe. We would hand carry + pack 70 odd dozens of infant wear into our luggage for delivery to the shops that has gven us small orders. Once production is done for the 300 dozens, we would give a call to our shipping agents in the 2 countries to get to work. Now I know , shipping cost can be damn high...But my maths on profit and loss seems to be getting better..so no worries.hehehe

Showcase some of the 'products' here

Though our products are not like rompers or really fashionable but for the middle class babies, I think they are a great option..u haven't seen any of those hideous baby clothes the hdb retail are selling have you?

Let's hope the whole range can sell well ~

As they are really cheap...Might not be the most classy of styles but it's a start

I would be on the afternoon flight to Jakarta, hope to be able to scout for somemore goodies to bring back .

Example :

hopefully other kids fashion as well...some feedback is that we should just stick to basic infant wear.........my answer is NO Way..Babies need beautiful clothes at affordable prices tooo ! And I needa earn a decent income without commiting 8 hours a day

I got my first order ~

2007-08-28T13:29:00.001+08:00

Update on my latest attempt in doing business..
I've gotten the samples last week , took down orders from several shops.
Though the orders are not gigantic...I'm over the moon ! I'm thinking of expanding this micro business...But I lack $ to bring in bigger shipment, in order for shipping to be cost effective , I should ship a larger volume each round..but I lack $ to take in so much goods... don't want to borrow from parents or boyfriend or anyone else. Actually I wanted to sell all my stocks and put the $ into the goods..but I bought the stocks under Mum's account..surely she will not be agreeable to me selling them...

I need to raise the capital in short short time...so no choice go back to work casio in the coming COMEX..God bless that I make a decent amount of $ in the 4days...grrr..I do hate the pressure to earn $ at times...

I'm excited that the shops I've been to, are interested to buy what I bring in. That nod of approval is what keeps me going.

I will be thrifty! I will raise the money

Getting into business?

2007-08-22T11:27:00.001+08:00

Office workers in Singapore are considerably well paid (civil servants included), entry salary at $1800..after 2 years, may be about $2300..another 5 years of experience and you could easily be taking home $3000 income or even more. If combined with a working partner, both of you should be able to lead a comfortable life right ?

BUT..it's boring ! stability comes with hardwork..BUT so does stagnancy..even if u are senior manager and hmm 45 years old..still have to go to office everyday..of course, if you are able to enjoy what you do..you will be a happy person..

BUT..I just dun like to work the same amount of hours everyday..surely everyone wants to have control over their own time, me included. So I've always have the thought that I will go into business, as I've heard uncountable stories of how some people ONLY have the business thought but do not carry them out, I really don't want to join their club in this. So I try..at the age of 17(in year 2003), I joined with my best friend and her sister to start a t-shirt printing businesss...Result? NOT successful..and my whole poly year 1 classmates suffered with a piece of the product..but I'm sure they are good hearted about this..thou I still get ugly naggy reminders from Mr sun n Mr khoo about my failure from time to time ..after that, I was a bit depressed and my morale did go deep low..yet that did not kill the 'entrepreneur spirit' inside me ..in year 2006 I started a tution co-ordinating 'agency' ...abusiness that I didn't even bother to register. With the help of my buddies Sunny and Eric, the website is set up--http://www.dedicatedtutors.com/ ..From then till now, it has been in operation for close to a year..total number of deals co-ordinated by me = 26. Average I do 2 deals a month...and that damn small lah...reason ? I'm lazy..never advertise properly...But still it does provide me with a meagre 200 bucks of pocket $ each month. A few months back, I was toying with the idea of setting up a snack stall like so many others has done , but without a single encouragement or nod of approval from family and friends, I'm not brave enough to start..and I do forsee that I'm still not mature nor responsible enough to take on a 'project' of that capacity.

After loads of considerations of the types of businesses I can try..I've decided to embark on importing and distribution of infant clothings.I've contacted my suppliers from overseas..have received the samples..done a local market survey,(still lots more work to be done) before my plans can be launched. But I'm working fast at it..

I shall try to do a regular update on my new business attempt in this blog so as to remind myself not to give up halfway. And also hope to inspire friends/readers of this blog to explore more options of income..though I've not yet succeeded but I'm trying and I would be happy to rcv comments from people who share the same thinking.E.g How adeline and Mr Sun's car accessories selling is coming along.How adeline and Jy's PSP selling is coming along. Or even the things that other friends/readers do. that I'm not aware of.. Okok..basically I'm just kaypoh.

More updates on how my latest attempt at business will be posted...

Blunders

2007-08-20T23:31:00.000+08:00

Yesh...I've done it again..made trouble for myself...procrastinating got to me....
I've deferred a sem in my school..cos I'm not able to keep up with the work (that's an excuse) whatever the reason...the truth is I'm an ass who deferred a sem in my studies...and I would have to confess to my mum soon as She is expecting me to complete my Bachelor studies this January and I won't be able to do that...Grrr..
No I didnt fail anything...Its out of laziness, dread..I deferred a sem..dumb me...
Soon I would have to face the consequences...

Spoilt cam, office work with Del

2007-08-12T12:05:00.000+08:00

My cam is spoilt..I think..hmm no pics for a week or 2 ..grrr...I will send it to Casio for repair tmr..and its F.O.C Gd gd~

I'v been working with Adel for a week now..doing simple office job at Raffles place..Very relaxing, meet her in the morning , go work together...gossip about everything under the sun..Reach work..sit opposite each other..chat on messenger..do some work..Ta Da and its lunch time..Foood Food.. 2 greedies go in search of food and before u know it..its time to knock offf.Good pay...nice work..good company...not a second was I bored with the job..after I can gossip every single minute with Del..wat more to ask for? Hehe Thank YOU to the black piggy =)

Guys who spoils my appetite

2007-08-11T13:14:00.001+08:00

Many things in this world equate to a disgusting guy, 1 who can easily spoil my appetite(which is good for me..cos I really should stop eating)...But the number 1 thing a guy can do to be termed disgusting in my eyes right now is one who...

Does the same things he does with his ex ,with his new girlfriend...
well I can understand that after all Singapore is small..but surely we have a great variety of restaurants for a guy to choose from..don't have to bring his girlfriend to a place he frequents with his ex right...duh...

99% of girls are chocolate lovers..but kindly don't buy your ex's fave brand of chocs for your new girl..go explore..take A look...try something else..I mean its not nice if 2 regulars bump into each other at a small chocolate shop..with that thought....aewww

Have some creativity guys, girls like to feel special...nobody would say I'm perfectly blissful dining at a restaurant u and ur ex frequents or..wooo I simply love the chocs that your ex love too... So get it ?

**The above post is not intended to target at anyone ...But should it appear in anyway similar to anyone's current actions..it's a mere COINCIDENCE ...but YESH it means that person is indeed the disgusting one(if he could even bring himself to admit to it..at least that's cool) .
*To my buddy gossipers..dun say anything to spoil my already begone reputation oki ?

Pre National Day celebration

2007-08-10T14:57:00.000+08:00

Went to MOS with Christ, Sinca, honie, and 8 of Sinca's friends..The que was scary..as sinca's frens were member ..we were able to skip the que..but don't know because of what the fren left early..as we were reluctant to join the que which was the same length as donut factory, we went to Attica..the new HOT SPOT in that area..

The place is pretty but rather small, crowd is cool..very few groping banglas..actually I tink there were none..We played drinking games and when we had just about enough drinks..it's dancing time~ By 3:30am..we were alll Laper (stands for famished) so it's Lau Pat Sat..fried rice, ju-ju, satay, gong gong, fried chicken,sotong fritters...mhhmmm

Think I wanna go to Attica next wednesday again..but awaiting approval from my Mister

Donuts

2007-08-03T09:12:00.000+08:00

During my last holiday in Jakarta, under the urging of Christ I became a donut critic ..Christ gathered donuts from Krispy Kremeeeeeeeeee, J.CO & Dunkin Donuts all on a table for me to sample and review them...Sad to say the Dunkin Donuts that I grew up with tasted the least delicious among the 3... 2nd place is Jakarta's own homegrown branding J.Co donuts(they've made it real big over there) and my personal favourite has gotta be KRISPY KREMEEEEE ...sweet and crispy on the outside..soft and melt in your mouth on the inside ...mmmm...Chris not too happy with the results..as he is a loyal fan of J.Co ..he practically raves about J.CO everyday at lunch ..hehehe

Anyway..I was groaning about why Singapore doesn't have any of this delicious yummy donuts? Afterall we are supposed to be the food heaven in the region..and when I return..I found out that we have..It's called Donut factory, opened by some Pakistanese...and the queue is astounding!!!!!! 3 hours is what I hear...GOD DAMN IT ..I'm not gonna queue 3 hours for some bloody donuts...Are this people mad?

Few days back I walked past the branch of Donut Factory in Suntec...the queue is scary at least 80 people in it...leads all the way from the shop to the toilet itself...till people have no place to stand..and some of the queuers there tell me that this is relatively short compared to the one in RafflesCity %$&^*&*( Grrrr....at the rate this goes, I will be unable to try these donuts...hmmphh)Thats when christ spot a 2nd que ..one that has only 8 persons in it...we quickly joined that que before asking around the reason for the short que...which is if u join this que, u can buy drinks and coffeee take a seat at their seating area and buy up to 2 donuts per person...They've got a LIMIT ! Those queuers at the long kill are thinking of at least 1-5 boxes...12 - 60 donuts each...thats why they rather stand and continue to wait ..the problem is christ is a donut freak and he wanted to eat 4 donuts while I wanted 2...so when it was time to place our orders..we pleaded with the waitress about our love for donuts and she kindly granted 1 more donut to us..a total of 5..alrite we r pathetic here..begging to buy donuts...lol

YUMMY !

Beaware ! He is a ice cream + donut + chocolate monster !

Mmmm..Donut Factory is yummy ! especially their double chocolate..white choc on the top of the crispy donut skin..soft donut bread and right in the centre of it is dark choc flowing out with every bite...Ahhhhhhhh I prefer krispy kremeee to donut factory..Christ still thinks J.Co serves the best donuts in the world but we both agree that in Singapore itself, Donut Factory has gotta be the tastiest !

However their serving system sucks...krispy kreme and J.Co both has the same amount of customers as Donut Factory, but their serving system as well as donut production is 5 times faster at least ...buck up on it Donut Factory ~

UPSETTING

2007-08-01T09:06:00.000+08:00

Ahhh...I failed my driving test..must admit I'm quite a dangerous driver during the test..nvm theres always the next try..though it does upset me so much...Christ booked us a movie, la Vie En Rose after I finished my test..was feeling real down but the movie was quite good thus I was momentarily absorbed into the show...Brrr...Grrr..

Saturday 28/07/07

2007-07-30T10:44:00.000+08:00

Cam-whore ~

because...someone refuses to take me out and perchd his ben dan face in front of the lap top !

so I do what I'm best at to get a chance to go out ..and that is...

acting cute..lol

And as I've long discovered...

acting cute can be very DEADLY contagious~

I've won ~ we head out to Geylang Ho Kee Pau for some yummy dim sum then to Esplanade to catch a wonderful live band performance

Blur pics due to lousy lighting , lousy cam..nothing to do with subjects captured ok !

Tsai Qin concert

2007-07-26T12:50:00.000+08:00

Recently the stock market has been rather kind..Amatuer me made a few lucky buys n sells and can shake leg for next 1.5 months..suddenly have the willing to pass on this joy so I booked 2 tickets to Tsai Qin's concert for my parents ~

She will be performing on 18 august at Singapore Indoor stadium..Most of the uncles aunties are fans for her..So if you've got some cash to spare..giver ur parents a treat..for most of our parents will never fork out money for a good concert...but they have willingly given us pocket $ all these years.so don't be a miser

1ST skin peeling facial

2007-07-24T15:35:00.000+08:00

Yep yep ! I had my 1st skin peeling facial done @ Niks today...The doctor did a 35% peel for me...No feeling leh...I thought the acid will have a burning sting when it comes into contact with my face but nope...nothing at all...no changes to my skin yet But I have great faith in this treatment as many forummers kept praising it..and so I have booked a second appointment on 28th august for the 2nd facial ~

While I did my chemical peel @ Orchard point, her Majesty goes to Orchard shaw towers to collect some of her new jewelry(lucky woman !) When we have completed our respective task..we meet back at Takashimaya for our high tea dim sum..this must be the everyday events for those tai tais hmmph..go shopping, buy jewelry, do facial and putting cute n yummy little har kows n siew mais into their mouths ~~ Yum yum ~Grrr...much as I want to be a useful contribution to the society..I must admit that the lifestyle of a tai tai is truly tempting....hehehe

Reached new peak - ...my WEIGHT

2007-07-20T09:10:00.000+08:00

Damn it...my weight has reached a new peak..now its higher than it's ever been..which means if u see some fat ass walking and shaking her fats...u have spotted Me...Grr...

I'm abit upset with the weight gain but the food's been real good..ahhhh.

Some activity to shed those pounds...As the ideas came to us suddenly, none of us are had the right attire..shorts and slippers where are u ?!

Cycling @ ECP

They shared a double bike...

I tried it too~

Can u see how much Sinca is sweating ? (it's weird!)

Summary of the past 1 week

2007-07-12T10:25:00.000+08:00

Oki..so I tried out a few things last week, tasted lots of delicious food, caught 2 movies..which I think are the greatest I've seen in the past 365 days

..besides that..I have been through 3 ultrasound scans in a week ! @$$#%$^%& and another 1 yesterday..which makes 4 ultrascan in a span of 8 days...$#%$$^%$&*^*

The ultrascan results shows that there is something in my body which shouldn't be there..for all those out there..don't worry ..its not a foetus..lol...nothing terminally serious either.
From my point of view..it is something that can be easily taken care of..and I'm still trying to figure out why the goddamn bloody $#%^^& made me go through so much scans..waste so much of my time and not to forget $$$ ! I love my $$$$ ..so please stop making me go through so much nonsense to take them away from me assholes...grrr... Besides $ ..these stuffs is also making my mum real worried...and I do hate myself a teeny weeny bit for it..but to get rid of this sense of guilt..I shall point the finger to the indecisive doctors.

Out of these 4 scans, 3 are done in private clinics and private hospitals because mum thinks that the private hospital will provide more efficient service and will have better + newer equipments as they cost the WORLD! well..out of 3 points..mum is right on 1..regrettably its the last point..they really do cost the WORLD!! As for newer equipments..no comments..hmm..efficiency..NO WAY! I waited at least 1 hour before I'm allowed into the scanning room..as I'm supposed to keeep a full bladder before the scan..My bladder was almost on the edge of bursting..u all know how great that feeling is right ?!!! $R%^%&^*(%
I thought that after charging me so much..the private hospitals,specialist clinics..wateva u call those medical price jackers ..will have the decency to not make me wait as if I were visiting a polyclinic and paying less than one tenth of wat I am.. But no...its the same..just wait! Wait ..wait..and continue to wait there ok ?

I decided I has enough of waiting on my second visit...sttod up, and told mum that I'm going to the neighbourhood polyclinic to get these tests done..I rather pay 10 bucks and wait 4 hours each time..instead of pay 100 bucks and wait 3hours upon each visit..mum stopped me and told me that it's not a matter of 3,4 or even 6 hours of waiting..but to go to a polyclinic to take these tests..I have to 1st queue 2 hours, see a GP, tell him wat test I wanna do, he will then book me the nearest appointment..which probably will be somewhere 2 months later..then I go for the test..wait 3 days for the result, come back to the polyclinic, take a que number and wait another 2 hours to see the GP,if the results shows that there is something unwelcomed in my body, the GP would refer me to SGH and get me an appointment with a doctor there..By going through this system, I would be termed as a subsidised patient..I would not have to pay the docs at the hospital at least $150 for each consultation...but as there are already god knows how many subsidised patients infront of me..mum says it would not be strange if I'm given a date thats 3 months from the time I get my report..Which means if I go to the polyclinic and que last week..I would save myself about $600 in total but have to wait 6 months before I can consult the doctor to handle the unwelcomed guest in my body ....

6 months is a long time to wait...and thou that unwelcomed guest is seemingly harmless right now..I might not be able to say the same 6 months later..so I sat down and continue to wait patiently..After all the hoo haaa in the private specialists blah blah, I'm referred to SGH yesterday..hey I'm lucky u know..if I go thru the polyclinic, its a 6 months wait..now its only 7 days + 3 scans...I tot that now its good, I'm at a govt hospital..so I should be charged lesser..NO ! as I never come thru the polyclinic way(wait 6 months, till dunno wat happens to me) I cant be subsidised..I have to pay $100 for 15 mins consultation $80 for another scan and $132 for 5 blood test results..after paying so much..is there a solution finally? NO! Doc says wait and see...

Now I believe in wat some uncles aunties who sit at the coffee shop says...in this era..in this country...you are not allowed to be sick unless u are $#^%86&* rich

Now to express the gratitude that I'm feeling constantly, I'm blessed to have caring loving parents who fuss over me..fortunate that life always find one way or another for me to make $$$$..blissful with a loving partner...as usual overwhelmed simply by thinking of how much I really do love my friends ~

Continue to wait ....wait..wait....

2007-07-07T10:07:00.000+08:00

Seven Hundred and Seventy Seven couples in Singapore will be walking down the red carpet today !

Heres my wishing to them for a longlosting & loving marriage!

Gelare waffle with yaga & Del

2007-07-05T17:41:00.000+08:00

Like the many million times...my camera's out of batt..so no photos..I've got so few photos of me del n yaga...Def I will rem to take more the next time.Anyway I think we are meeting on quite a frequent basis and should continue to do so till our heads are white..Hehe

Congrats to Mr Willie for making it through on his 1st attempt for class 3 driving license.. He is now the proud owner of both class 2B and 3 license..while poor me n del have nothing under our names yet...nvm .. I do believe we were born to be ferried around anyway ~ hehehe

Many regrets for not being able to stay longer...as dummy santoso has terrible toothache and Super duper blurrr dumbass aka ME carried his medicine + painkillers in my bag..so gotta go pass it to him..before his oh-so-impt tooth rots,get infected or lest he dies of pain *rolls eyes...anyway Its my fault !

Indo cusine @ Lucky Plaza

2007-07-02T16:00:00.000+08:00

Ariff and Alfredo, 2 of Christ's friends who were here on holiday over the weekend insisted on having Indo food at Lucky plaza..recommended by some of their colleagues..I was rather reluctant..but decided to be a good sport...

And I did not regret the decision one bit ..It was delicious..The ayam bakar which I anticipated to be dry and hard was not ! It was soft, tender smooth..The sauce was Wooooo!

I ordered an extra dish..cos I've been missing it alot alot since I returned to Sg from indo..That is Ley ley (a type of fish that eats anything)

I hardly see Ley ley sold in Sg at all..so when I see it no way I will miss it..hehe Its fried till crispy and crunchy, without the oily feel + black sweet sauce and sambal ! Yum Yum

After that 6 of us went to bowl a couple of games at Marina Square..Ahh I do miss bowling ...Although I haven't bowled for a long time, my bowling skills haven't deproved at all..An average of 100 in 2 games..hm..I'm not that lousy eh.

Some clarifications aka CRAPPING

2007-06-27T10:52:00.000+08:00

Recently I've been getting some feedback from my so called old-friends. Hmmm...as far as I can remember I don't have any old friends...only good friends, super good friends and 1 or is that 2 损友s . Most of the feedback has the same content .."have boyfriend..dunwan friend"..quickly dump your boyfriend then call us.", and also comments reminding me that I owe my diploma to them hehhehe...and also I remember who nagged me through all the big Downs in my life, and who always loyally listen to my complains...How can I ever forget my 恩人s ?

正所谓得人恩果千年记,而我又是那么一个有原则的人, so don't fret...it just happens that I'm currently hmm..how do u call it...XP? being xtra-pwned..if I were to admit it myself...grrr..for one who has never been in this situation be4..it's rather tough...maybe I should learn from previous masters such as Eric,Mr Sun and 1 more XP in the making from what I gather could be Mr He...Anyway the point is...I shall not give in to this ok...I shall reverse the situation in 1 week's time from now..by then you shall be seeing so much of me..maybe u wanna kick me out of your sight.

Of course there's always the considerations of Mrs Lim...who is forever in mood swings...God bless me with immense patience to deal with these delicate situations ...Amen.

Hanging out after my exams

2007-06-25T14:41:00.000+08:00

Straight after my examinations ...chris and me headed to join Honie and Brenda together with the new owner of the apartment Mr Sinca at his new home..

Cheers for the 3 housemates

I'm turning red

Oh man ..this guy's a goner..while I can still try my best at looking pretty Hehehe...Poor christ suffered the penalty of 3 shots at a time + carry the saucepan..Whahahahaha

I'm amazed by how much Sinca can drink..I think I've yet to witness any1 drink as much as him..Brrrrr....Of course he became quite wasted for the whole of Sunday...whahahahaa

Lazy blogger

2007-06-22T11:16:00.000+08:00

oK...i KNOW i know...i've turned into 1 of those lazy bloggers as well...but I'm really busy...(fine..i have poor time management) ...anyway I will post regularly after my evening exam...a promise made to myself...alot of pics to be updated..just a little busy..lazy..wateva excuse i choose to give..

Ahh..good luck to myself for my paper tonight

Anniversary

2007-06-18T14:20:00.000+08:00

It was my anniversary with chris ~

How long have we been together ? Not that long...hehe

Anyway..the highlight of the day is that I'm the cook !

Mum's off to Deisaru for the weekend with her churchmates..so I am free to use the kitchen however I like....

Ingredients

The final product

We went to the reservoir after his work to enjoy our delicious dinner together ~

Conclusion : Pretty tasty..ahem

Oh yah..I left a portion for Dad too..and he is just so proud of his daughter ...Awwww

Wii + Katong laksa

2007-06-14T08:59:00.000+08:00

Sinca + his gf Honie(Helena from philipines) joined us at Christ's house for an evening of fun with the much loved Wii

Coincidentally they are wearing identical shirts from G2000. Hehhehe.

Wii requires lots of action from the players ya know..which left me exhausted ...so I need some kind of energy replenishment ..hehe

It has been so long since I last tasted katong laksa..oh..How I've missed it!!! Yum..yum

Now they've got air conditioned dining area beside the old kopi tiam(I'm just so outdated)..but we still prefer eating in open space..have more 'feel' mah...lol

The ben dan looking ben dan...(heng he dunno my blog add..if not Mati lah)

From his silly expression, u should know how much he enjoys my recommendation for supper.lol

Wawa turns 5 years old

2007-06-13T08:53:00.000+08:00

On Monday , 11 June 2007, Wawa the princess dog turns 5 years old ! This is equivalent to 35 years old using doggy age..Wow..now wawa steps into middle age..What an old dog..lol

So we got together to celebrate her bday at our favourite crabbie place..

Now ..wheres the birthday dog ?

As it wasn't too convenient for her to go to the kopitiam..we left her at home first...But we did prepare a sumptuous birthday dinner for her..with lots of pork, spare ribs..eggs..greenies for dessert..Also there's a birthday costume

Mum with the yellowy dog..both has got on rather weird expressions..hehe

Oh...So she's supposed to be a bee...She used to have an outfit of a bee too..it waS One of Nikey Jang I rem..but she grew out of it. Now Eloise's got her a new one..So she's a little bee once more

Wawa: Give me back my TOY!

Hmmph..Finally I've got it !

Lastly, there's Jie Jie looking real happy

I cancelled the job + recent updates

2007-06-11T11:03:00.000+08:00

Ahh all the excitment about landing a full time job...Hehehe In the end I cancelled it..Due to relentless efforts made by Papa n mama to talk me out of it. In the end even Chris joined in to psycho me to cancel the job...I called in on Saturday morning to the mobile phone of the kind man who hired me...He was slightly upset but ended the conversation nicely with me...Wew

Now I'm back to square ONE. Okok...I will get my priorites straight ...Complete my degree with good results first...All other nonsense shall be on hold. I do hate studying by now....

Been browsing apartments/condos over the weekend. Cos Chris good fren and hometown mate,( Sinca)is looking for a new place..His landlord is selling the house..Sinca decides that he does not want to deal with further landlord problems and has convinced his mum to buy an apartment/condo in SGP..Cool. And so me n Chris were invited along to give whatever opinions we have. All the houses are pretty, the agent took some efforts to site down decent places..but no matter how I look at it..All the asking price are skyhigh...But why should I worry..ultimately I'm not the one buying.Hahaha getting kinda sour eh..cos It did be nice If I can go from one apt to another saying: 'Ok, This is nice..I will buy this.' Bleah ..as if...

Chris bought a 32"lcd tv last week and a home theatre system..These stuffs look out of place in his room..reason being his room is small..these things belongs to a living room ..5 surround speakers n a big TV...come on ..my living room tv is only 29"...But I gotta admit ..it's a much better feeling watching movies in his room now compared to my living room. Too lazy to look for my camera and post the updates. Will get them done probably tomorrow.

I wanted quite badly to join Adeline, Mr Sun, Philbert & Peter to play overnight mahjoing...but the pressure to face if I go home in the wee hours is too great for me to bear...hope u guys understand..Aww I do miss the good old days.

Few weeks ago, I was just rather smug..thinking that I'm the luckiest @#$^%%^*&( on this earth...The problem with feeling so fu*kin blissful is that..when suddenly Life's not so nice to u...u feel it's the end...hmmph..But I've seen a substantial amount of sadness to realise that Nothing's the end. Just sleep through it.

Work Or dun work

2007-06-08T08:56:00.000+08:00

I'm supposed to start work officially on Monday,11/7/07, but Mum and Dad doesn't seem too happy about the job I've gotten. They are pretty fine with the jobscope and the pay.. but they feel that the working hours an ass..

Which I have to agree...My working hours are from 8:00a.m-5:30p.m
Now abit lost...But I really think there's alot of things I can pick up on the job..

How? Die lah

Back to Earth

2007-06-07T09:47:00.000+08:00

Oki...though supposedly theres another 5 more entries for my Indo trip..I think I'm abit sick of recalling..will ave it for next time..been 2 weeks since I'm back..What have I been doing? Catching up with my laggard schoolwork of course...feel guilty to my papa n mama for not being around for such a long time..So I've been spending alot of time with family soon.Also paiseh that everytime my friends jio me I can't make it..thanks for ur understandingness ~

I went for a job interview yesterday afternoon as I was a bit bored with my stagnant life..much to my surprise..I was confirmed for the full time position on the spot..Omg..not mentally prepared to start full time work...Hehehe

Meeting Yaga and Del tonight at 85 for dinner...Awww I miss them so..also miss the chicken wings..carrot cake *winks Hehe

Indonesia trip 7th day -Nintendo Wii

2007-06-07T08:41:00.000+08:00

By the 7th day..my body's abit worn out..Hehehe what can one expect? I get less than 5 hours of sleep each day and the last I recalled I'm supposed to be on Holiday not training camp. That's because chris friends are too nice...from morning to night..they've got it all planned out for us..till there's not a single boring moment..Ahhhh

Back to Mangga Dua to dig out more goodies..

What are these? SHOES!

Yea..everyone just anyhow grab...

After the morning madness of clothes..shoes grabbing, I dutifully followed Mr Christian Santoso & Gerry to the technology department in Mangga Dua where Mr Christian Santoso start his buying....

Yea ! He bought a Nintendo WII , extra controller for me ~ and lots of pirated games...I thought IT stuffs cheaper in SGP. But It's slightly cheaper there ..and I tink Chris wants to be loyal to his country for once ..hehe

Anyway..we got back to his sister's house and started playing ! I like WII..it gets u moving !! Ahhh..abit crazed to it now..and for all who knows me..will know that I'm not exactly what u can call a gamer...

After 2 hours of playing..we had to pack up and get changed..as his sister just bought a new house and the people at their church are coming over to perform some kinda ceremony...

We didn't stay through for the ceremony...as Chris often complains to be that the Pizza Hut in Singapore ain't nice at all...so he takes the wheel and brings me to try out the {izza Hut in Jakarta

Acting cute at the restaurant...

Impatient man awaiting the arrival of his dinner

Where's my FOOD?! Starving !!!

Ah ! Here it comes ~

With food ..he is a happy man now ~

After that...it's KARAOKE time ~

Indonesia trip 6th day - Piggying continues

2007-06-04T11:31:00.000+08:00

The shops start to close..with our bags full...3 pairs of jeans for me, 1 dark grey, 1 light grey, 1 blue . lots of tees..some shorts and tees for my mates in Singapore.Pants for Cela...We are on our way back to Cela's house to take a rest and await Gerry+Jimmy from their long day @ the office.

While waiting for Gerry and Jimmy..Carlo(Cela's golden retriever) decided to entertain Chris..Hehehehe.. He is a big doggy there.Very loving !!! Weighs 40kg..is only 1.5 years old..going overweight soon.Welcome to my club, Carlo ~

Seems like Carlo's not too keen to take a photo with us commoners..Hmmph

Its ok since Gerry and Jimmy arrived not long after to take us to dinner ~

Dinner time

The 3 musketeers

Gerry&Jimmy totally absorbed in the world of their own and food..lol

As u can see..cela has gone a little crazy and is in love witht he fish without a body

3 out of 4 looks stuffed and ready to sleep with their tummies filled..1 look immensely satisfied and is grinning broadly with eyes closed..Cute cute Gerry

What's next ? With me around ..of cos its dessert ! ICE CREAM !!! Gerry drove us to La piazza..a place similar to Holland village & Siglap in SGP.

Me and Chris shared a bowl of ice cream consisting of 6 delightful flavours while jimmy looked on at us with disgust..He never can figure out how I manage to consume so much food. Lol..seems like that will remain a big question mark for all of Christ's friends. = )

Jimmy and cela prefers their ciggs over ice cream. BAD CHOICE!

Last pic for the day

Indonesia trip 6th day - Continue piggying

2007-06-04T10:32:00.000+08:00

We arrived at Taman Anggrek mall for some Bakso GM even before the mall was fully opened..hehe

Boy I could still recall the taste of those crispy dumplings..yum yum..can see that I've added on some weight to my body ..Sigh...

Next stop : Mangga Dua to meet up with dearest Marcela for more shopping

Mangga Dua consists of 4000 shops altogether..You can find everything you want here..shoes..clothes..skirts..dresses..belts..electronics..yes..lots of hardware software..toys ..games etc.

After3 hours of shopping, Christ raised the white flag and tempted me to have tea break ~

Me with small claypot sharksfin (not cheap at all..BLEAH)

My handsome..cut his hair super short..awwww

Indonesia trip 5th day - Back to JKT

2007-06-04T10:06:00.000+08:00

Woke up early ~

This is Christ's sis house in JKt. The house that I slept in 80% of my time in Indonesia...Its very spacious and beautifully decorated. Would love to own something like this..imagine calling it my home...ahhh..carries on dreaming.

By the way, I found out that most Indonesian family have a maid..and alot of them have more than 1 maid..Christ sis have 4 maids I think, not that I can tell each one apart from another..all look the same..When I first saw the maids, I was shocked...What a great invasion of privacy..why the hell does a person need 4 maids? Afterall most of the time the house only has 2 occupants -Christ's sis and his bro in law... But day by day I start to realise the usefulness of the maids..the whole house is kept speck and clean at all times..Any clothes that need to be washed iron fold..can be done the very minute u want it..Also they help out alittle in his sis business from time to time.

Shown below is the most popular vehicle used by Indonesian familes..It's the Toyota Kijang..u can practically see 1 zoom past u every 20 seconds..According to the locals, its cheap, saves on fuel and spacious.

Thats the personal driver..took a snap of him when he wasn't looking my way...God knows that In Singapore, which is where I come from..even millionaires hardly use a personal driver..but it is common for Toms Dicks and Harrys to hire personal drivers in Indonesia. Argggh

Rest of the day = lots more food + shopping with christ's family

Indonesia trip 4th day-Semarang

2007-05-30T13:20:00.000+08:00

Early morning ...I'm the new Becak girl ..hehehe

Pict taken in Semarang morning market aka Pasar Pagi

After breakfast, we took a short walk to Christ's mum's small scale factory ~

After taking a short nap in the afternoon, the 2 of us decide to borrow one of the emplyees scooter and cruise on the higher land area in Semarang ~ Nice views . Lots of Jumbo houses.

We returned alittle later than expected, by the time we came back to Christ's house..his mum's alrdy at the doorstep with the car door open..all our luggage packed in to the boot of the car...It's time to catch our flight back to Jakarta ~ Yesh Christ's mum decide to join us on our holiday and followed us to Jakarta to stay for 2 days...

His mum is very soft spoken..easy going but never doubt it..a woman who build her career frm scratch..single handedly bring up 3 children ..She is STRONG!

Christ's 1st sis & bro in law were awiting us upon our arrival at the JKT airport..got us and our luggage into their car and within minutes we are having dinner..Wew...everything planned out..Abit shiok...On holiday, but no need to do own planning ...just follow other's plans .

At the restaurant...

Back to Christ's sis house...ZzZZzzZz

Indonesia trip 3rd day-Rushing to Semarang

2007-05-30T11:51:00.000+08:00

Ahh..Comes the 3rd day of the trip, and it's time to leave puncak..our initial plan was to reach Jakarta(Christ's sis house) by 4pm...quickly pack in some new clothes and head to airport to catch the 6pm flight to Semarang(Christ's hometown). But at 4pm..we were still no where near Jakarta, as there was heavy traffic flow from Puncak to Jakarta that afternoon, seems like everyone had decided to end their relaxation trip the same time as us...We were pretty stressed out in the car...by 0530pm..we had just touched the side area of Jakarta...would half an hour be enough time for us to rush to Christ's sis house, pack in some new clothes and also get to the airport to catch our plane ? Very unlikely...Infact according to Gerry(Christ's best mate cum driver at that point of time), even if we head straight to airport without stopping by christ's sis house ..we might still miss the flight..as the airport is situated at the other end of Jakarta...and in the next few days I realised that one must never NEVER underestimate the traffic conditions of Jakarta.

Without much of a choice..Christ asked Gerry to drive us straight to the airport...luckily for us there wasn't much traffic on the expressway..and not to forget Gerry is a pretty good driver..wheezing his MPV in and out of cars at a consistent speed of 130 - 140 km/h. We reached the airport at 6:15...DARN IT...the flight is scheduled to fly at 6..we are supposed to check in by 5pm...we are 1 hour 15 minutes late for check in..and 15 minutes late for take-off !!! Has our plane flew off already...omg...Christ rushed to the domestic flight counter to do whatever could be done..and came back with unbelievably good news...Thanks to the 'high efficiency' of Indonesia's domestic flight..we were still able to catch our flight as it has been delayed by 45 minutes... .. Phew We gratefully bade our mates farewell and checked in. After check in...we were ushered to the plane and it took off at 6:45p.m.

Both of us couldn't help it but grin non stop on the plane like 2 ben dans..wew ..we were lucky right ?! Plane touched down at 8p.m in Semarang..we took a cab to Christ house in his hometown...Surprise surprise...christ's family owns a shophouse along Chinatown in Semarang..that night being sunday night, there a weekend night market ongoing

Lots of food , some clothes, some accessories at the night market..very lively

Christ wanted to show me more of his hometown so he got his mum to arrange our tour in 'traditional transport'. And the 'traditional transport' turned out to be a Trishaw , also known as Becak in Java Island.

Check out our becak driver..very scrawny right...But he sure is fit..He carried 2 fatties on his trishaw halfway around town..He dropped us at a bakso shop(traditional java food) where we went in for our dinner..Half an hour later, we emerged from the shop and I was surprised to find him waiting at the doorstep of our shop...Christ assured me that this is the normal routine..wow..I can't imagine a taxi driver will wait patiently for me to finish dinner and drive me home.Hehhehehe

So remember thatI had arrived in Jakarta without fresh clothes for change? ...ewww...luckily for me ..christ's mum runs a pyjamas and underclothes factory in Semarang..hehe so I have unlimted supply of pyjamas and underclothes to choose from..Thank God

Me fresh and clean after a bath, in my new pyjamas..the black+white photo beside me is christ's dad..who had passed away while he was still in his teens..above me is their family photo taken ages ago.

Smelly prince & me

Cam whoring while Smelly takes his bath

Can tell that I was a little too happy that night ? LOL

ZzZZZzzzZZzzz

Indonesia trip 2nd day - alittle more on Puncak

2007-05-29T15:47:00.000+08:00

Besides great weather and scenic views, Puncak is also filled with different residential resorts with varied themes..The one we lived at is Holland style. We drove past some of these resorts with little Japanese gardens in front but I was too lazy to get off the car for pictures with them..hehe..I'm more attracted to the colourful themes..such as the one below..It's more kiddish, feels like I'm in wonderland eh ? Hehehe

1 row of cute cartoon resort house

Acting funny ?

I dunno wat it is..the cool weather ?, the various cultural,magical themes of resorts ? or the scenic views in Puncak ...that makes it so relaxing...I can totally ease my mind and think about nothing ..nothing but how to enjoy myself~ hehehe

Very sweet piping hot oven baked sweet potato..a product from cilembu..tastes like honey...mmm

Card games back at the resort - (Wew ..I look so stern )

2nd day in Indonesia - Off to the PEAK

2007-05-28T11:47:00.000+08:00

After 1st night arrival in JKT airport..seafood heaven dinner..crusing round jakarta in car..ice cream for supper(doing all that without unloading our luggage first..abit crazy). We had a 6 hour sleep at christ's sis house and early 7a.m we are off in the same car to head to Puncak(also known as the peak)

Before we embark on the hazardous journey uphill, we stopped over at a local eatery for some traditional breakfast ~

Views taken from inside the car, on the way up to 'the peak'

The view is relaxing, ain't it ? So is the weather..very cooling..think the temperature is only about 15 degrees..Shiok ~

After 2 hours ride from Jakarta, we arrived at the peak and got to the resort unit owned by Christ's family~ Took in our bags and got comfortable..It's not big as a villa but very cosy...4 bedrooms, 3 toilets, 1 kitchen and a big living room.

We took some pics at the front door...Check out...

The pretty gays

The demure ladies~

Next stop: Lunch ~

We had the famous Ayam penyet at a nice little restaurant providing a scenic view

See the view in the background of where we had lunch..simply stunning for me

Looking back, I still find it a little unbelivable that I was able to enjoy my lunch at such a scenic place...haiz

Group photo

Busy busy May

2007-05-28T10:06:00.000+08:00

Havent got time to finish updating my Indonesia trip...before I zoom off to Genting with mum...Plane touched down at Singapore on 1:30 a.m Tuesday 22 may...Zoomed off to Genting on 23 May Wednesday...Came back on 25 may 10p.m...Then 27th may is sister's one year anniversary...Had a get together session with my family, ben dan, and several of sis's close buddies...My school work is way behind time...But I can't seem to get enough time with my parents and ben dan...Arggghh...Got a full body check up coming up in 2 hours time...Time is pressing me...I really want to update my blog properly..but that just gotta WAIT

Backdated Entry 1 - Heading to Jakarta

2007-05-22T11:01:00.000+08:00

My ben dan honey had to go to the office to finish up sommore work before he can come take me to the airport ..so we booked the 6p.m flight from Changi airport. At 3:30 p.m ben Dan come to my house with his luggage to pick me up, and my godly mum invite him in for some soup+ followed us to the airport. ( Think she wants to spend more time with me before I leave her for my holiday hehehe Love her) Dad came to join mum after his work..But we already checked in.

After Check in

Our plane..Emirates

On the plane

Christ buddies..who faithfully waited 2 hours for us at the airport...and greet us with the warmest of smiles..load our bags to the car and zoom us to seafood heaven !!!!

Went for Ice cream after seafood..chatted alot ..reached Christ's sis house at 3am..and unload the luggage to our rooms..within minutes..both went ZzzZZzzzz

My 10 days in Indonesia ...To Be continued....

Back from Jakarta

2007-05-22T03:10:00.000+08:00

I'm back from jakarta !!! been a long loong time since I blog...Willl update asap..probably tmr..just wanna say I thoroughly enjoyed the trip..exciting !11!!!!! Many 1st time experiences for me...AND omg I missed the flight back to singapore...cant believe it..Will fill up the details..Now its 3:30a.m I gotta get some sleep first ..lots of pics

My lovely lovely Del's 21st Birthday Chalet

2007-05-07T10:36:00.000+08:00

Got to her house at Friday afternoon 2pm..In the mood to carry out some chicken massage and get any odd jobs done..Wow it feels like the good old days back from 12 years old to 15 yrs old..the time where del an me often org chalets and prep the stuffs together..but this time its diff ..we are no longer amateurs...sad to say with all that experience we r still not pros in marinating ,set up fire, blah blah..lucky for us, Del's got a hero..Mr Yeo-her BF saves the day I reckon.

Last minute packing

CHIOBU

Where's Gary? ..Taiwan training..the doings of National Service..

I love Adeline Lee Pei Ying...She is a bloody naggy kind of friend..easily stressed by small 'horrible' happenings around her..But always manage to somehow give me support at the time I need her most...She thinks she is slow..but no way ! She is fast enough for me * winkz

Happy 21st Birthday Del ! 我爱你

What's with life

2007-05-04T12:36:00.000+08:00

Okie..1 of those cheam cheam questions : What Do I want out of Life?

Wait to finish uni..get the cert..find a job..settle down ? Continue working till I can't stand straight and retire at 65. Afterwhich do housework at home? No way !

I wanna see the world..Wanna go to places like Niagara Falls

Sahara desert

Grand canyon

And be awed by the beauty of nature while standing beside my loved ones...

Continues to dream ...ZzzZzzZzz

Public holiday Rox

2007-05-02T14:17:00.000+08:00

Yay! I love labour day ! Had dim sum with ben Dan and my parents at East Ocean Teochew Restaurant in Scotts. Clever me left the camera at home...Lol

The restaurant is unbelievably crowded..though we had already made reservations beforehand..we also had to wait in line with all others for 15 mins..ZzzzZzz Once we were seated, the food arrived promptly..Yummy too..Service 3.5/5 Taste: 4/5 . 7.5/10 overall worth a try.

KTV Pictures

Did u manage to spot a trend in the above pics? YESH ! Mr Khoo is 24/7 camera ready ! Buay Tahan ....

Camwhore...

Ends it up with Banana Split !

Btw check out this pic..I edited it using Paint...Had enough of my big Fat face so I put some brown colour over the side ..pretty satisfied..though any IT efficient user would be spitting on this pic...lousy edit whahahhaa

Ben Dan's 3rd visit to my home

2007-04-28T11:40:00.000+08:00

Ben dan invited my parents out for dinner together...hehe He is so brave! I say he's brave as he doesn't really have a language in common with my mum..Hehe ..He is a Chinese Indonesian born in central java..since young chinese language is banned there..The chinese living in Semarang & Jakarta never spoke chinese..only communicate in Bahasa Indonesian...OMG..for some of the luckier ones..they manage to learn english...My mum is chinese edu..thus cannot speak english... Mum grew up in malaysia thus she can understand some simple malay..but she lived in an all-chinese kampong in malaysia..ummm so her malay is quite limited as well..also it has been 40 years since her malaysia kampong days..so u can imagine..hehe

Hey I also faced problem communicating with his mum..but just a little..his mum spoke and learnt chinese till she was 7 years old..Since then it has been about 40+ yrs since she last spoke chinese..as she is also not english educated..we communicate thru the basic chinese that she remembered back from 40+ year ago...wow

The both of us laughed alot whenever we think about it...He speaks in Bahasa to my mum..I speak in chinese to his mum..but he cannot speak bahasa to me me..as I dun understand and I cant speak to him in mandarin lolol..Hmmm in september there will be a chance for our mums to meet...what would they communicate in ? Ohh..they can communicate in a mixture of malay + chinese...coool !

Anyway back to the dinner..Mum rejected ben dan's offer to go outside for a meal..instead she took some time to whip up a scarily delicious sumptouos dinner ...6 dishes for the 4 of us..Dot Dot dot..what a showofff Heehehhehe Ben Dans very impressed by the food.

He bought over 3 tubs of Ben & Jerrys ice cream...COOL I love them ...preserved fruits & some dried mushrooms..(ps: on his first visit he bought a 3 cans of abalone..the smartie ass)

Its natural for ben dan to buy gifts for my parents...But wats unnatural is...Dad came home from work with a carrier in his hands and he passed it to Ben Dan before he left...WTF he bought ben dan chocolates...I dun get..But I'm gonna finish them !

A nice place to spend some quiet time

2007-04-26T18:20:00.000+08:00

The usual movie shopping dinner in shopping malls routine is getting to me...grrr ain't there a place where I can enjoy some kind of different feel ?

My ben dan was determined that we find a place to relax..have some cookies...

Yesh it's in Singapore ..isnt it beautiful...the cool weather keeps me relaxed and comfy..the company I have keeps a smile on my lips...hehe . Leisure chats..jokes..Sincerely wished that time could stay at that moment.

Lunch @ Indonesian eatery...

2007-04-23T15:19:00.000+08:00

He's giving me the "Don't think I will easily forgive u" look

Pretty mental straining for me..gotta make ammendments for the rubish I do..But luckily I'm too cute to resist..forgiven and was even given a feast=) . I will be more careful in future . Phew

Friday night

2007-04-23T15:09:00.000+08:00

Had a lovely dinner with ben dan..attended his friends housewarming party in Tampines..the decor of the house is cool..I forgot I had my camera in my bag so I didnt capture any pics ...lol..I will make some excuse to pay another visit to their house hehehe

Met the 3 musketeers at 1:45a.m @ ECP...Wah been so long since I caught up with the clowns..really missed the jiao wheys..I listened in to the updates in their lives and also gossiped abit(whats new) hehe

The 3 of them just finished their blading session about to begin chat chat session with the Gossiper~

We tok tok tok..before we knew it..f*ck its 5am already ! Bert n Me were sent home in Mr sun's car..

Pretty good friday overall for me...with the exception that I broke a promise to my ben dan..Sorry Sorry Sorry..Really sorry. Thou he dun have my blog add cannot see..still Im really sorry I did it

Friday - afternoon with my parents ~

2007-04-23T14:54:00.000+08:00

Realised that I have not been spending too much time with my parents once again..so slotted otu friday as my family spending time ~

Small family eatery in tanjoing Pagar..recommended by papa..the dishes are common dish..easily found..but the taste is 4.5 stars loh..good good

Paid a visit to Sis after lunch...added some new flowers..cleaned up abit . Really missed squabbling and sharing stuffs with her.

S|ackey chatty Ice cream day

2007-04-19T14:56:00.000+08:00

Happy with his ch0c Indugen!ce

My yummy Sunset Swiss~ With appe pie !

Rea!!y gained weight ! Fina!!y I managed t0 get a n0t t00 fattening ang!e Phew

Feeling a little sickly

2007-04-19T09:34:00.000+08:00

Some types of sickness are sucky..the kind of feeling..whereby u r not really sick..yet part of you clearly feels unwell..a little giddy ..alittle suffocating ARgghhh #$^&(*&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;;&%^&$

Anyway I felt much better after taking this packet of medicine..It's a combination of traditional herbs + honey ~ Taste good cures fast ! I will find out where to buy this in Singapore..& keep a good stock of it..so I will never have to be tormented by sickly feelings again

Passed another Semester

2007-04-19T09:09:00.000+08:00

Okie..wheezed past another semester..but this sem I'm not really happy..The results are appalling bad..not that I hadn't seen it coming..But what's over is over...hehe I will just look forward to another 2 semesters, afterwhich off I go to the working world ~!~!~!~!

Missed my school days life..Pri school, unforgettable memories in Sec school + laughter filled Poly days..arggh ..sad to say I can't say its as enjoyable for my uni life...maybe that's because my classmates are all in the 30s + all working class...um..and another reason could be I don't even attend lessons..Blah...2 more sems to go ..I can do it..I can get my cert...Gambatte

I appreciate it ..reallly

2007-04-16T12:47:00.000+08:00

Friends..Some friends come to u when u ask for help..some friends turn away when u ask for help..those that turn away..welll I don't have friends that turn away..cos in the 1st place..I don't bother to spend time on people like that..

The cool ones are the ones who come to u even though u nv ask for help, when u never complain..when u nv initiate contact..they reach out to u...always concerned..always loving... I appreciate it..it touches my heart and makes me feel..woah what a great life I have

THANK YOU my friend !

Boring afternoons

2007-04-14T08:11:00.000+08:00

Life's too boring for me in the afternoons ! Got my nails painted together with Del

Mum's been away for 4 days

2007-04-13T09:37:00.000+08:00

I've been rotting for 4 days...Mum went on a last minute trip to KL/Genting with her friends $#%$&^*&^ ..damn it..though its really near..but how come she has so much more of a life than me ?

Anyway..the thing is,,,, I miss her cooking!!!!! I'm totally sick of outside food...

The last lunch Mum cooked for me before she headed for her short trip

Afterwhich everyday I've been meeting either my friends or ben dan for lunch..hey all this outside food is getting to my nerves..worse it is for me to have a ben dan bf (whom I meet for everynite's dinner) who is totally in love with dim sum & Mac...I tink he's mad when it comes to his meals..every meal he will either say Dim sum or Mac D...somebody kill me ..

1 week 3 - 4 times of dim sum is making me(a dim sum lover) detest it...

I get alot of hawker food ..mix veg rice + wanton mee+ char kway teow..but let's say they are just not mum's match !

I miss mum as mum for everything she does..not only her cooking... hmmm..honestly I do miss her cooking more than her naggings by that little bit

Happy Day

2007-04-09T09:59:00.000+08:00

Share my happinesss!!!

Two of us severly lack of sleep but dumb dumbly happy

Good Friday

2007-04-08T23:57:00.000+08:00

It's Good Friday ~ No work for everyone..but early morning tution for me..Teaching is fine with me, I think it's a pretty pleasant & simple job..but why am I always upset after I finish tution? It's becos..the family that I'm giving tution to ..is psychotic..the Mother & the kids treat the maid real bad...(give further example in future posts maybe..dun wanna tok about it now)

After that..got threatened to play mj with jackson n kok..I swear that they threatened me to play...lol...I feel so guilty towards Ben dan..He nv see real mahjong tiles in his life before.....don't understand wat is bamboos n circles..worst for him is the Wan zis..haha ...but he managed to pick up the basics of the game...End result ..Yay went home $45 richer happy happy...

But seriously I think I got zero interest left in mahjong...especially if gonna play $...so I told jackson next time no need jio me liao..tink he also sianz that I'm like that..Sorry..But if mahjong like tag teams with penalty ..still sounds like good fun....(so my mj date with friends that dun play $ in mj still stands ~) hehehe

In the evening , Ben Dan received an unexpected call too..but for him it's a Good call ..his childhood bestmate from his hometown, whom he has not met for 7 years..has came to work in Singapore too ! This friend is the only malay friend Ben Dan has..(apparently ben dan is very racist too hehe..but hor can't blame him..cos I think the malays in indonesia are really quite mean to the chinese there)

Long chit chat session @ TCC in Bugis...hmm I like my mocha double fudge + ice cream ~

Thursday Fun + unexpected calll

2007-04-08T23:32:00.000+08:00

Had a gruelling session with the twin monsters...After which, luckily Mr Ben Dan is waiting for me round the corner with some bubble tea to chill me down..

Ben Dan came right after work..therefore nag nag nag me to let him go home bathe n get a change of clothes before we go out again~ Meanwhile received a call from Mr Sun...minds cafe with the guys+Adeline !!!! I was quite excited!!!! But too bad 8 is just right...nine's a crowd...lol..funny Mr sun ask me to dump ben dan at home n join them..i would be a $#%^&& if I do that ~

And for not being a #$$%^&*&^ ...I got my reward..late night dim sum @ Geylang ~

Reached home @ 4 am..super shag...took a bathe..had a 'good nite chat' with ben dan on the phone...I was all ready to meet Andy Lau in dreamland..when suddenly my mobile start to ring...WTF 5am got call, the last time I checked, hmm my friends are not so happening liao leh..

A call to get some answers from me..answers which I happily & proudly provide~ What I do with my life is my business...& I can say without an inch of guilt I did not do anything wrong to anyone ..so that's that ...Back to dreamland...ZzzZZZzzz

I'm bored

2007-04-05T09:10:00.000+08:00

I want to start working full time !!!!

I feel like a total slacker...though I generate my own income for my everydays expenses(meagre)..but I still feel like a bum..cos I wake up late everyday..laze around...on 3 days a week , I work for 2 hours each day...so that's a total of 6 working hours per weeek...I don't understand why everyone says I'm busy...I'm just disgustingly lazy ...But time still pass very fast..before I know it ..another day has past by..Wa la..abit worried that I might turn 30 years old before I know what has happened to me whahahaha

Then every evening meet my ben dan from 5:30pm till 1 am...(guess this is what me & my friends term the honeymoon season, everyday see his face also happy also not sian) But sometimes the happier we get..the more scared I feel that honeymoon will be over...think too much ~~~~~

A little info about my ben dan

- 25 years old

- Indonesian Chinese (but cannot speak chinese)

- Multimedia Designer posted to work in Singapore branch office

- Handsome (but short)

- Not poor not rich

- Currently the love of my life

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Not been playing Mj for sometime..I shall have to see to that soon...I miss my regular karaoke sessions also...miss listening to the 'macho' singing voices of some of my mates

Exams Exams Exams

2007-04-02T19:33:00.000+08:00

I want to enjoy my youth..not take exams !

Maybe exams are also part of my youth...Grrrr

Ben dan bought me strawberries n light cheesecake yesterday..

Mum washed the strawberries n serve it to me together with the cheesecake while I lie on bed to study...Ahhh...this is good enough for me.. I'm so so satisfied & happy~ Somebody slap me ! Hahahaha

31st March

2007-04-02T11:58:00.000+08:00

1stly..apologize to Princess Adeline for not attending her birthday celebrations..hope you really like the gift I got for u and enjoyed urself ~

Met my ben dan @11am after my tution..wait for the pig to get bathed..dressed blah blah..wah lau..its already 3pm by the time we stepped out for lunch...had wanted to go to vivo city so that I can meet adeline , cos my dearest friends are playing at Sentosa..But ben dan suddenly tok to me about the food in his hometown..and greedy me got psychoed to go down to Somerset for some 'Ayam Penyet' instead

Ben Dan paying for our food

Indonesian cusine he calls it..to me..it's just malay food from food court in town whahaha

Next is Gai gai time in Orchard...At long last I got to buying my Niks cleansing lotion n the long awaited Vitamin C serum ~ (Thanks Ben dan)

More Gai gai...my ben dan aka as the lau ah pek...got tired from the constant walking..tsk tsk...kept pulling me to take a rest, have a drink...lol it's funny ! We shopped walk..eat..talk our way to The Cathay @ Dhoby Gaut (in between, we probably rested 200 times+/- hehehehe

Reached there at 8:30pm & we took another rest, this time @ Ben & Jerrys before our 9:40pm show( Mr Bean's holiday)

Enjoyed the music from the 'live performance' while I devour the ice cream & wait for the movie + await the arrival of lynn & her Bf.

The movie was hilarious...no need for me to kill any of my brain cells...this is wat i call relaxing entertainment

Thankful to Lynn for taking the trouble to come collect the pressies from me..Muackx + Apologize to princess Adeline again for not turning up( But I assure u there is more than 1 reason to my not coming , & I still love ya lots...glad that u really like the prezzie)

No prizes for guessing why theres no pics of me in my recent post...Yesh ! I've eaten too much...gotten too fat to look decent in pics...Ahhh Shucks it !

30th march

2007-04-02T10:22:00.000+08:00

Met Mr Sun to collect pay from Casio...Yay $$$$$

Then we went to Tampines to do our respective tasks for the princess Adeline ~

Mr Sun looking shy...with the bouquet...Awww so Sweet

He bought her a splendid gift too! I'm proud of Mr Sun who is such a man ! lol Treating his princess the RIGHT way ~

Mr Sun was kind enough to slowly fetch me to aljunied..as both of us had too much time on our hands...we travelled at a speed of 60km/h on PIE..Oh my gosh...got lost in paya Lebar area..in the end both of us were on time...Lol

Dinner @ pizza hut

Spicy Drumlets

Beef Lasagne + wat became of the spicy drumlets hehehe

Cheesy lava + Chicken Supreme

Ain't he girly looking? Haha still suave (he sure does hate this pic) whahahahahaha

Ben dan Don't like the pizza hut we have in SG..he says the taste is bad ....Bleah

Normal day filled with food

2007-03-30T12:03:00.000+08:00

Accompanied mum to change her hairstyle...she is even more vain than me ..ZzZzzzz

My lunch

My light dinner

My teeny weeny supper

Can I start eating ALREADY ?!

I lost to Ninja turtle !

2007-03-29T09:00:00.000+08:00

Yesterday, my tution kid's mum called me to ask for a change of time for tution..postpone to 6pm..which means I will end tution only at 8pm...ZzzzzZzzz She said it's because the kids are too tired from their day at school so needed more rest before tution...but when I got there..they were seated infront of their TV watching Ninja Turtles... %^&^%$%&

By 8pm I was real hungry, Surprise ~ Saw a ben dan lurking outside my tution place..with some plastic bags in his hands...hehe my ben dan with my dinner

His house is only 5 minutes drive away from my tution place..so it's good..no need travel far ~ Got to his place, unwrapped the food..Ta Da ~ the ben dan got us Chicken balls, chewsy hotdog buns and....loads of indonesian snacks...like ondeh ondeh + some other kueh which I don't eat...Bleah = ( Dumb ben dan !

Work work work

Touring singapore

2007-03-28T10:59:00.000+08:00

Touring Singapore can be so very tiring....

Our view on the cable car to Sentosa

Chinese Garden

Chris & his Mum @ One fullerton

Chris's Sis n Bro in law

Blurish...

Ben Dan & me ~

Yaga's day @ settlers

2007-03-28T10:46:00.000+08:00

Ain't he handsome ? *winks

( Sorry girls the last bachelor of the year has already been taken)

Eating requires lots of skill too ok....

Couple Set 1

Couple Set 2 ?

Chris's Family visits Singapore

2007-03-24T08:18:00.000+08:00

Chris's family arrived @ Singapore yesterday for holiday trip/visit the spoilt, Ben Dan

They are staying at Amara Hotel for the next 4 days before flying to bangkok ..Awwww

The view from their suite in amara Hotel

Chris's Mum n 2nd Sis

His sister is 28 years old...my oh my ...she looks so young doesn't she

Late night stroll along the River

Local Delights from their hometown

Many more pics to upload..but they are all not in my camera!

For the next few days...I will try to be a good tour guide and revise my school work at the same time hehehe

This time it's different

2007-03-23T11:56:00.000+08:00

Met Adeline(xy) for lunch at Suntec Swensens ytd...yum yum and lots of stuffs to catch up on.. my dear friend is looking prettier and prettier..though no doubt some minor stuffs are troubling her pretty head...Cheer up U're the Queen

For my so very concerned friends (aka as The kaypohs) ..yesh I've entered a new relationship..it may be too early to say much..just feel that this time it's different~

1st meetup with His friends

2007-03-22T00:04:00.000+08:00

Group dinner @ Holland Village

I realised that there are so many differences between our circle of friends..hmmm

Luckily both have fun friends...I gather that to be ok

Adam Air

2007-03-21T11:20:00.000+08:00

Recently Adam Air has been very much in the news..This is what my friend from Indo showed me..a joke from the Internet..pretty amusing

Good morning, Ladies and Gentlemen."This is your captain speaking.Welcoming both seated and standingpassengers on board of AyamAir. We apologize for the eight-days delay intaking off, it was due to bad weatherand some overtime I had to put in atthe bakery.
This is flight 717 toYogyakarta. Landing there is not guaranteed, but we will end upsomewhere in Central Java. And, ifluck is in our favor, we may even belanding on your village!
AyamAir has an excellent safety-record.
In fact, our safety standards are so high, that even terrorists are afraid to fly with us! It is with pleasure; I announce that, startingthis year, over 30% of our passengershave reached their destination.If our engines are too noisy for you,on passenger request, we can arrangeto turn them off! For our not-so-religious passengers, we are the onlyairline who can help you find out ifthere really is a God!
We regret to inform you, that today'sin-flight movie will not be shown aswe forgot to record it from thetelevision. However, for our moviebuffs, we will be flying right next toGaruda Indonesia Airways, where theirmovie will be visible from the rightside of the cabin window.
There is no smoking allowed in thisairplane. Any smoke you see in thecabin is only the early warning systemon the engines telling us to slow down!

Using up all the good luck ? + partime job anyone ?

2007-03-20T12:37:00.002+08:00

Feeling so lucky now...lucky things following each other into my life...

Now I'm scared that my good luck will all get used up suddenly..haha..silly silly...

I will be updating no details..though that's what I would love to do...

Meanwhile I only want to let my fave people..know that I'm doing great.. feeling so fortunate..but I haven't forgotten my dearest gawp..my funniest clowns from poly days...darling Adelines..Give me some time before I start pestering u guys everyday

Btw..part time job available

28th - 31st march

10am - 6pm

need one female part timer,well communication,presentable,talkative,distribute flyers,making coffee,get d name card frm customer

$10/hour

The show is not open to public so I gather it will be easy job..but I'm not free to do it..Anyone interested talk to me

My day in Wonderland

2007-03-17T12:27:00.000+08:00

I'm in a kinda gaga mood nowadays..easily excited..lol

Living in wonderland is what I would like to see it as...If only I can just remain in wonderland...

Watched 300...hmm..nice..but not nice ENOUGH like that...

Went to the food fair in suntec ...Hehe..Food food food ..what else..

A nice stroll along the esplanade to One Fullerton...sat beside the Merlion and the clear river...

Sometimes I think..Life's great..=)

Thought alot about Sis...

Ate @ Makansutra's Gluttons Bay at 2:30a.m in the morning..whahaha

Jb with sweetest papa & mummy

2007-03-16T08:24:00.000+08:00

Mum's been complaining.. she's not so happy with me being out of the house constantly..so I made yesterday ammendments day..after morning tution..I accompanied Papa & Mummy to their Fave Johore Bahru...ZzZzzz
Lunch

Mum and me decided we have enough of dad and his Bak kut teh nonsense..so off we go to one of the local eateries for some small dishes~

After 'lunch' Dad immediately pop over to his beloved Bak Kut teh stall for his 2nd lunch...Unbelievable...

Yummilicious durians

It's really good..I never can get to taste this type of durians in Singapore ever !

Had a hair cut..did some shoppping..Mum and dad had a hair cut + hair dye ..both looks stylish and sharp..but declined my invitation for more photos..hmpph

I just cannot resist food...

2007-03-14T09:02:00.000+08:00

Stuffed ourselves silly

Still slim and pretty in a Loose Looooose dress =x

4 days of my youth given to Casio

2007-03-12T16:14:00.000+08:00

Hehe..4 days at the It show..talk till no voice...

2 super wu xim people came to me..1 brought me tea~ the other bought royce chocolates..totally made my day...Rox

Sales target were hit..but commission quite poor..hmm.its ok ..at the end of the day its still fun =)

From ** 's actions..all the more I'm convinced that I made the right choice..Cheers Pat

Steamboat

2007-03-07T23:44:00.000+08:00

Fat fat liao

Durians !!!!

Good fun...I love steamboat & durians at geylang..shiok

Sense of satisfaction

2007-03-06T00:34:00.000+08:00

Monday Night

Ben & Jerry's

6 scoops of ice cream between the 2 of us~ Wow

After the Big dessert, went to catch Letters from Iwo Jima @ The Grand Cathay..hmm..wat a sua gu I am ..Grand Cathay opened 7 months liao and today then I paid my 1st visit to it..hehe anyway the shops they have over there have real interesting names..1 example would be Instant Karma..hehehe cute man ..Movie not bad..the emotional type..but I think it's too slow paced.

Thanks for the dinner,dessert,movies~

In the Afternoon

The brats took back their Ca1 paper today..Brat no.1 scored 62/100..brat no. 2 scored 78/100 ! Hehe I feel proud proud..improved quite a bit from their initial..55 and 63 respectively...Good job to me!

Shop+Eat+Bowl+Ktv

2007-03-03T10:17:00.000+08:00

Time passed very duper fast yesterday....anyway now my legs are SORE..

Where did I take this photo at ?

Dinner~

Following which we headed to Kim Seng bowl..the lanes are good! Better than my favourite bowling place to date (Tampines Safra)hehehe..My balls went pretty straight ytd and I even managed to score an average of 118..not bad eh. Too bad we had to end the bowling stuff real quick cos there was still KTV..

For a change tonite was not Teoheng night for me..I was brought to a KTv pub in Chinatown..it used the same song dedicating song system as Teoheng, provide yummy food , and good service as well..though it's centrally located..the pricing's grerat as well..definitely gonna bring some of my other mates there soon.

I've made it !!!!

2007-03-02T10:29:00.000+08:00

Finally I'm out of the curse...1st day of March and what a great start...I passed my FTT~~~

Now I shall play play awhile then look for my driving instructor..to spoil his car hahahaha

Minutes before the test...

Fail fail loh...I can act cute..I not scared fail =X

Act cute..but after some analysis..I look more constipated..haizzzz

Anyway I passed FTT !!!!!!!

Bought a new bag..Hehehehe..shopping rocks my life totally, love the vanilla milkshake yesterday =X . =). Lastly a small mahjong session with my new found mahjoing kaki completes my day. My this group of kaki very healthy..only play 0.2/0.4..good good..got girl girl in the grp too..but only 1 ...also good better than nothing lor

SIA Training Centre

2007-03-01T08:13:00.000+08:00

Skipped tution yesterday...=X Not in the mood to teach tution...feelings much too messed up (Fine..its just an excuse I'm LAZY)

Anyway Jess took me and Riez to SIA training centre...Nice place...I like the PEACEFUL swimming pool there...
We booked the pool room for 2 hours, to play pool, hang out, talk loudly and basically be ourselves...which is exactly what Riez did...Initiallly there were 2 other guys in the room when we arrived...not good lookers..but not THAT bad either lah..anyway Cherie was weird weird when they were in the room..totally self concious..stealing glances at them..letting out high pitch giggles every 2 minutes...Hmmm...uncommon behaviour for someone who considers herself an active lor...Jess & me of course did not let slip of this opportunity to tease her to the max..after the guys made their...lol
Riez changed into a completely different character next..she started walking around with a weird posture..and when questioned..she replied:"****, I'm having a butt freeze!" That got me laughing my ass off while rolling on the floor..yup it was that funny! But that's not the end...Cherie managed to set tears rolling out of my eyes with her next comment:" Hey! Theres a FLY!"She said this in quite an excited manner summore..um..in which I would have taken it normally if it had came out from the mouth of a 2 year old toddler whose recognised a fly 1st time in his life...Pengz...There u have..my funny friend..ZzzzZZZzzz

Ok...It won't be long before I attacked the swimming pool there~

Some help for my clueless friends

2007-02-27T07:33:00.000+08:00

Hmm..I woke up on the right side of the bed today..feels refreshed and delighted about life..wanting to pass on my good spirits...I decide to post some stuffs I received in the email in my blog as tips for my Single & available guy friends...
Though they look above average,are nice,perfect gentlemen...they are still single..
Nope they are not GAY (at least not that I know of)

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Here Are The Top NINE Reasons Why Men Fail With Women -

And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

1) Being Too Much Of A "Nice" Guy
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys? Of course you have. I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU. What's going on here?
It's actually very simple. Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what? Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. And being nice doesn't make a woman choose you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, but get over it. Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

2) Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just not interested? Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently. Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, ever. You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning. Think about it. If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that by being "reasonable" with her? But we all do it. When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. Bad idea. Another one that will never work.

3) Looking For Her Approval Or Permission In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea. Women are never attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here. You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you. But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again. You will never succeed by looking for approval

4) Trying To Buy Affection With Food And Gifts How many times have you take a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
Well guess what? It's only natural when this happens... When you do these things, you send a clear message: "I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation.

5) Sharing How You "Feel" Too Early With Her Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are rare. They get a LOT of attention from men. Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another all the time by men.
An attractive woman is often approached several times a day by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often hundreds of times per month.
And guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a lot of men. That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect. And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax. There's a much better way...

6) Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For Her Women are different from men. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women? Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on? Well, after studying this topic for over 14 full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks. Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it. Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them feel than they are to looks alone. If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman. But it's not an accident.
You have to LEARN how to do this. And ANY guy can learn how...

7) Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age. And sure, there are women who are only interested in these things. But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks. There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet... And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

8) Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission. Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women. Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants. Another bad idea... Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over. Women aren't attracted to Wussies! ===Personally I think this applies to me as a woman = (

9) Not Knowing What To Do In Each Type Of Situation A woman always knows what you're thinking. I know, it might be hard to believe. But if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it. And if you don't know HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help! And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating... Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical... everything. If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.

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Ps: If u had bothered to read every single word of this post and is a guy..I'm very sure u are gonna land urself up with a girl ! U would have impressed me with ur determination! Cos even I myself cannot be bothered to read the entire contents of it..whahaa